說別人喜歡聽的話

一位牧師正在向周圍的一羣聽衆講解教義。牧師的聲音很好聽,而且他能把那些平常令非教徒感覺枯燥無味的教義講解得非常生動。他說:“上帝深愛着他的每一位子民,並且給予了他們同樣公平的機會和能力,只不過有的人對深藏在自己體內的能力發掘得較早,而有的人則晚一點而已。只要不放棄,每個人都會得到上帝的幫助。”最後他以一句非常富有感情的話作爲這次講解教義的結束語:“共同努力吧,每一位上帝珍愛的子民,每一位從天而降的完美天使!”

說別人喜歡聽的話

當牧師準備走下講壇的時候,周圍的羣衆當中有人表示,牧師的講解雖然煽動人心,可是卻並沒有正確地按照事實說話。所以這些人要直接與牧師對話,希望牧師能夠解答他們心中的疑問。牧師表示十分願意和他們一起面對難題。

首先向牧師提出疑問的是一位嗓門很大的青年男子。這位男子用右手食指指着自己的塌鼻子對牧師說:“如果像你說的那樣,上帝對他的每一位子民都是公平的,那他爲什麼把別人塑造成漂亮的天使,而我卻長着這樣一個難看的鼻子?”

青年男子的話引起了周圍人的一陣轟笑。也許他們是在笑能言善辯的牧師遇到了難題,也許是在對青年男子的'自嘲感到好笑,但是他們的這陣笑聲卻更令青年男子感到不開心。他認爲衆人是在嘲笑自己的塌鼻子,所以直直地瞪着牧師,等待牧師的回答。

牧師依然微笑着,依然用自己娓娓動聽的聲音回答了青年男子的問題:“你當然也是上帝最珍愛的完美天使,只不過在從天而降的時候,你的鼻子先着地而已。”

牧師的話說完,周圍的人一陣會心地微笑。年輕人也聽出此時人們的笑充滿了善意和理解。

接下來,又有一位天生跛腿的女子也向牧師就自身的生理缺陷提出了疑問,她認爲上帝對自己極不公平。

牧師用同樣的聲調和態度對眼前這位看上去很自卑的女子說:“在你從天而降的時候,你忘了在降落的過程中打開降落傘,而且你是用單腿着地的。”然後牧師指了指自己的一雙短腿笑着說道:“我同樣忘記在降落的過程中打開降落傘,不過我是雙腿一齊着地的。”

當牧師的話音落下之後,講壇下響起了一片掌聲,而那兩位提出疑問的青年男女的臉上洋溢着難得的自信笑容。過去他們總是爲自己的一點缺陷而自卑、難過,可是現在他們可以從容地站在人羣當中了,因爲他們相信,自己同樣是上帝珍愛的完美天使。

善意而沁人心脾的話,能夠給人以輕鬆愉悅的感覺。這種話更容易讓人接受和喜歡,說話的人也更容易得到別人的關注和喜愛。所以,我們在平時與人交流時,實在是有必要注意自己的說話方式,在說話之前應該好好想想,這句話會讓別人喜歡,還是讓人心生厭惡。

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非常經典有深度的電影英文臺詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因爲你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上爲止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成爲了昨天,最後成爲記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣纔會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你爲了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾爲那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以爲那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以爲愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.