給女兒的話

丫頭,生日快樂。你每長一歲,老爸就衰老一歲。但是,心裏是快樂的。你讓我知道了生命的奇妙和偉大。

給女兒的話

知道你現在不樂意我張口“丫頭、丫頭”的喊,覺得自個兒是學生了,有大名了。呵呵,老爸習慣了,記得你剛會走路時,我一進門,一聲:丫頭,你晃晃地撲過來,用胖乎乎的小手搓着我臉上的胡茬,這一刻,我是在擁抱我的生命。

丫頭,老爸沒忘記你的約法三章,聽我說的對不,第一、只准在家裏叫;第二、同學來了不許叫;第三、喊你接電話時不許叫,怕對方聽見。舊習難改啊,叫順嘴 了。有時難免會違章,小孩不記大人過。呵呵!

其實,當初也沒想叫你丫頭的。你一呱呱墜地,我們就琢磨着起個響亮的、富含象徵意義又不失溫婉雅緻的名字。你想,我們第一次榮升父母的職位,能不慎重行使你賦予的權力嗎。

凡事不可過,一過就做不成,這不,預選名字太多,舉不定了。只好先擱置再議,等上幼兒園後再說,相信到時會有足夠的智慧來解決。先丫頭着吧,老話講名賤命貴,哈。

後來,見央視有一名播叫小丫的,嘿,我們樂了。敢情我們和小丫她媽所想略同埃這更堅定將丫頭喊到底的決心。說不定你小丫超過她小丫呢。

丫頭,我知道你現在嫌我們總是嘮叨,多說兩句就煩。有時我就奇怪,聽周杰倫含糊不清,哆哆嗦嗦的歌時,咋就不煩。起碼老爸說話比他清楚吧。呵呵,老爸落後了,有代溝了。可是,我們愛你才說的。老爸小時候,也嫌爺爺嘮叨,急了就跑到外面,不天黑不回家。等長大了,爺爺不嘮叨了,只是聽我不停地說。爺爺不在了,想聽也聽不到他嘮叨了。現在想想,沒有爺爺的嘮叨,我不可能平平安安地一路走來。所以,我們只有一個願望,丫頭這棵小樹能順順溜溜,直直挺挺長大。

丫頭,我們常自我檢討,是不是期望過高,要求太嚴?記得從未要你在學習上爭班上第一,第二也不爭。第一都不爭爭第二沒意思,對吧。可是要求你不當最後一名不算過分吧。老爸理解每個人天賦不同,各有所長。天賦方面,我們負主責,後天是否努力可就是你的責任了。老爸不否認你的聰慧,不把你的聰慧發揮出來,是不是有點資源浪費,興趣廣泛是好事,能不能在百忙中抽時間抓抓學習呢?

上次媽媽說你幾句,你不高興地說:你們現在對我好,長大後我對你們好。老爸聽出你的弦外之音。你還小,想得不會很深。等長大了就會明白很多。丫頭,這世上什麼都講公平,凡事都講報答。唯獨父母與子女不講這些。在你未成年之前,必須聽從父母,天經地義。我們可以尊重你的意願,但不是必須。我們從不要求有所回報,這跟崇高扯不上關係。我們給了你生命,就必須對生命負責,這就是愛。

丫頭,將來無論飛多遠飛多高,你永遠不是我們手中的風箏。既使你願意當風箏,我們也要讓你成爲無線的風箏。

知道大象如何走向生命的終點的嗎?當一頭老象感知生命即將離開自己時,它就會離開象羣,一個人尋到密靜的沼澤,讓自己虛弱地身軀慢慢地沉下去。

這不是無情,是老象爲了不拖累整個象羣,是一種責任也是另一種愛。

丫頭,老爸盼着你快些長大,又害怕你長大,能陪着你從童年、少年,希望有青年一路走來,你給老爸的快樂遠遠超過我聽給予你的。你是我們心甘情願揹着地“甜蜜的負擔”。

丫頭,你是永遠讓老爸心疼地小丫頭。

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非常經典有深度的電影英文臺詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因爲你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的.愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上爲止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成爲了昨天,最後成爲記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣纔會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你爲了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾爲那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以爲那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以爲愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.