對逝者的話

13日上午約十點時許,單位一位與我同令(按:疑該爲“齡”字)的員工田野,因急性心肌梗塞被送進醫院,不到一小時便離開了這個世界……惡耗傳來,單位上下震驚,皆爲人類年輕的生命短暫而發出嘆息。

對逝者的話

說句老實話,宇宙萬物凡有靈性的動植物,誰也逃不脫生與死這個關口,因此,一向豪邁的我並不畏懼。對他的逝去,我僅僅只有對生命的短暫而惋惜的同時,對人情世故炎涼的漠視又多了些悲傷。他屬於在普通不過的平凡一員,按理無需值得用文字去記錄他。他豪無主見性地活了四十又六,從懂事起頭腦就被別掌控着,所以,清貧、曲折,恓惶,甚至失取了許多人生進取而能改變他的命運良機。中國有句古語:近墨者黑。他的人生最佳青春期無疑被人當槍炮使用了。的的確確是痛快了別人而毀掉了自我。他尚無懂的這些檾單道理的時候,便帶着一生咋也弄不明白的人生哲理匆匆逝去……

如果老天真的有靈驗,或者存在靈魂的話,我相信他會哭得驚天動地。他會爲自已短暫一生認人不清而無限傷感。據我所知:他的“要好朋友”置若罔聞、熟視無睹他的可悲絕地,倒是幾個一般同事,在他的“事情”中默默無聞地忙碌着,協助他的家人理料後事。僅憑這一點,至少活着的人比看他看的更透徹。他的靈魂也應該悔悟到自已不應該出現的致命做人錯誤來吧。

人生在世,有生則有死。有人在自已哭聲中降生,有人在別人哭聲中死去,這是不可抗阻的自然法則。人死有泰山、鴻毛之分,有人雖死猶活,有人雖活猶死。我想每個活着的人都應該在那些死者的身上,用中國傳統一句老話“蓋棺定論”來很好地詮釋自已的人生……

不管如何,我們總算有緣地相識一常你畢竟是我從極大分歧的爭議中提撥了的一名“副站長”。從你離開人間的冷落境況中也畢竟能給活着的人一個啓示,使更多的懂的做人的道理來。這就是人們常說的一種做人“經驗”和“財富”。就憑這一奌,我還是要爲你寫下一段文字來昭示後人。

死者爲大,你長我幾月,故稱一句老兄吧。願你靈下有知而大徹大悟,來世做個精明的智者。田野兄:入土爲安,一路走好…….

然而,這又是一次奇特的生命追問——短短5天,在他生命最後的驛站寧波,每天都有十餘個發自肺腑的聲音,有親人、朋友、同事,憶起他生前的點點滴滴,將我們引入他的生命磁場,感受他的生命溫度。

擴展閱讀:

非常經典有深度的電影英文臺詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因爲你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的.幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上爲止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成爲了昨天,最後成爲記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣纔會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你爲了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾爲那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以爲那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以爲愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.