友誼是一種來自雙向(或交互)關係的情感，是雙方共同凝結的情感。下面是小編分享的關於友誼的託福寫作素材，希望能幫到大家!
維繫老朋友的.益處
It is always a blessing for people to find someone whom they can count on in their greatest time of need. Old friends know us the best and they will never judge us and will accept us just for who we are. We can share the deepest secrets of our mind with those who we have known for decades. Sometimes even talking seems unnecessary since they can easily understand what we are thinking without saying a word. When hanging out with old friends, we do not have to choose our words meticulously and we can joke about our most embarrassing moments without the fear of being judged.
託福寫作舉一反三
① count on 指望、仰賴
=rely on
② hang out 閒逛
託福寫作話題詞彙
與…相互交流 interact with
結識 make acquaintance with
親密關係 intimate relationship
穩定關係 stable relationship
保持聯繫 keep in contact with
建立良好關係 establish sound relationships with
持久的友誼 enduring/longstanding friendship
增強友誼 cement friendship
一輩子的朋友 lifelong companion
託福寫作真題實戰應用
✎ It is often not a good thing to move to a new city or country because of the loss of old friends. (2014.9.21)
✎ The ability to maintain a small number of friends for a long time is more important to happiness than the ability to make new friends easily. (2014.8.30)
✎ It is more important to keep your old friends than it is to make new friends.
友誼與競爭
Friendly Competition?
It’s Not Just the Guys
Competition is a social process where people try their best to do something better than others so they can win. Although most research on competition is focused on males, it’s not just men who are obsessed with rary to conventional wisdom, men and women can be equally competitive. However, women and men tend compete in different areas, which reduces the amount of cross-gender competition that might otherwise be apparent in everyday situations. A certain amount of competition can be helpful when it motivates us, but it can be harmful in personal relationships, resulting in stress and relational dissatisfaction.
Women Compete for Men
Research on competition among women tends to be focused on females competing for males. For example, one study found that women tend to be more hostile toward women who dress in a sexually provocative way and would be less likely to befriend such women.
Competition Between Coworkers
There has been less research into female-female competition in other domains, or male-female competition in any area. However, one recent study examined competition in the work environment, looking at feelings ofjealousy between coworkers. They found that for men, social dominance and good social skills evoked the most jealousy, followed by physical dominance; greater physical attractiveness in a coworker generated the lowest level of jealousy. For women, the results were a bit different. Good social skills were the most jealousy-evoking, followed by social dominance and physical attractiveness, with physical dominance evoking the lowest level of jealousy. Interestingly, this effect was influenced by the presence of a same-sex supervisor, which seemed to boost competition and make rival coworker characteristics feel even more threatening.
Friends May Compete Against Each Other
Traditionally, competition is thought of as a rivalry in which the success of one requires the failure of the other. But competition between friends may be a different animal. Interpersonal competition is a dynamic, ongoing process, where individuals may vie to out-do one another in a multitude of domains. Male friends may compete in sports, academic success, income, or status at work. Female friends tend to compete in areas such as attractiveness, fashion sense, weight, financial status, and the success of their children.
Competition Can Be Unfriendly
The issue of competition between friends and colleagues is important because although competition canmotivate people to excel, it can also cause problems such as jealousy and envy. Trying to prove one’s superiority is personally threatening, therefore, competition can be harmful to a relationship at any stage of development. Relationships are less satisfying if one or both people feel like they are not measuring up, or that someone considered a friend is gloating over their failures.
In its worst form, competition can lead to broken relationships and relational aggression. In many instances competition is motivated by a lack of self-esteem, leading a person to prove their worth at another’s expense. Unhealthy competition is also fostered by Western society’s individualistic value system thatemphasizes winning at all costs and “survival of the fittest.” However, cooperation facilitaties better quality relationships than competition.
If you find you are obsessed with being the best or are competing with your friends at the expense of a good relationship, you might consider finding new targets to motivate yourself. For example, improve on your personal best at work or at the gym. Think of your friends and coworkers as resources rather than rivals. Set long and short term goals for yourself and focus on meeting those rather than outdoing others. These types of victories will be more meaningful and satisfying in the long run.
