雙語閱讀:笑點一樣的人才能在一起

Study after study affirms that people want a mate with a sense of humor. But it’s less about you being a jokester than about finding a style of humor that makes you both laugh.不斷有研究證實,人們喜歡有幽默感的伴侶。但這不是說你就要做搞笑分子,要找到能讓你們倆都笑的幽默風格。

雙語閱讀:笑點一樣的人才能在一起

People say they want a sense of humor in a mate, but that’s a broad concept.人們說他們希望伴侶有幽默感,但這是個寬泛的概念。

What is strongly related to relationship satisfaction is the humor that couples create together.和戀愛關係滿足感相關的是情侶彼此共同營造的幽默。

If you share a sense of what’s funny, it affirms you and affirms your relationship through laughter.真正起到作用的是你們倆對什麼好笑有共識,這能使你確信,也讓你們的關係在笑聲中鞏固。

Playfulness between romantic partners is a crucial component in bonding and establishing relational security and that laughter, particularly shared laughter, is an important indicator of romantic attraction between potential mates.戀愛關係裏輕鬆活潑的狀態對建立和穩固戀愛關係起到至關重要的`作用,歡笑,尤其是兩人共同的笑點是潛在情侶彼此吸引的重要指示。

It’s good to have humor. It’s better to see it in your partner. And it’s best to share it.有幽默感自然好,你的伴侶有幽默感則更好,你們有共同的幽默感則好上加好。

It’s not about being a great comedian, but finding what’s funny in the everyday and enjoying it together.不是說要你成爲偉大的喜劇演員,而是說要找到日常生活中有意思的笑料還能一起樂。

It is most important you do it together.你們一起樂,纔是重中之重。