對女朋友說對不起的話

前些時日在QQ空間中發了一個帖子,文中當事人看到後要求俺刪掉,沒辦法,只得從命。但這篇文字實屬有感而發,於是,就轉到這裏來了。它沒有華麗的詞藻,但卻擁有真情。原文發表時間:2007年2月15日 15時59分 ,全文照錄如下:

對女朋友說對不起的話

昨天是情人節,俺希望能給女朋友一個驚喜,送她點精緻的小禮物。中午和一死黨在石家莊繁華的中山路上到處搜店,希望能如願,不幸的是,最終也沒搜到滿意的東東,失望而歸。晚上去女朋友那兒,她送給俺兩個小靠枕,這倆小靠枕是她花了一上午的時間搜到的。吃完晚飯出去逛時,本來想送她一盒巧克力,但她明顯是生氣了,噘着小嘴兒,不一會兒就拽着我回家了,回家後就趕我回自己的住處。

臨出她住處的大門口時,我問一個百貨店老闆:“老闆,有沒有巧克力?”“有。”老闆答道。我喜出望外,趕緊上去買了一盒,可惜的是包裝不太好,但也只能這樣了。迅速折回她的住處,敲開她的門。她剛洗過臉,表情很複雜,帶着淡淡的笑容,又有些許不滿。看到我手中的東西,她說:“你幹嘛呀?是不是認爲我拿你的理兒了?拿回去。”我心裏鬱悶極了,真不想讓她傷心。我把巧克力放到地上,轉身就走,她拿起來要塞給我。我不住向她道歉,因爲確實是我自己錯了,沒有提前準備。我都快聽不清自己在說什麼了……我抱着她,她抱着我,我們就這樣吻着對方。我走了,轉身的那一剎那,我發現她趁我不注意悄悄迅速抹去眼角的淚水。此刻,我更加堅信,她是值得我用一生去珍惜的女人。

到家後我照例給她發了個短信——這是我們不變的約定,她回信說:“你給我感覺就是追到手了什麼事也就無所謂了。但是今天是我的.第一個有情人的情人節,我很想收到一份來自男朋友爲我選的禮物而不是我自己選,哪怕你選的是一兩塊錢的東西。非常抱歉,俺實在掩飾不了自己的不快,還是表露了點讓你感覺到了,引用你的話就是:說白了,就是不用心。”我沒有做過多的解釋,我只想用行動去證明

今天,我起了個早去搜店,所幸的是,終於搜到了可愛的東東。今晚又要見到她了,我相信我的禮物她會喜歡的,我的自信源於我們之間一向的默契。今天,再向她說聲兒對不起,而且我可以保證以後不會這樣了。媳婦兒,放心吧,俺不會讓你失望的。祝豬年快樂

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非常經典有深度的電影英文臺詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因爲你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上爲止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成爲了昨天,最後成爲記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣纔會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你爲了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾爲那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以爲那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以爲愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.